We think Love can be so cruel at times when we face our greatest fear of ending a romantic relationship. It takes away our dreams to be with the person we love. The hurts sometimes take long because we are holding on the past of happy memories. We think this is the end of everything. Love is a powerful thing that it can kill us inside when we get hurt but it has an ending and we must be ready to accept it. Ending a relationship is a natural process for us to learn and grow. There are many reasons why some relationships fail. It may be because of infidelity or the other person has fall out of love.
Whatever the reason is we must learn to accept it and move on. Moving on is not easy either. It takes time for our hearts to get healed and recover but for some, it is already part of their life and could easily move ahead. The reason for this is maybe they have some priority in their life that they need to focus on. Healing takes place normally depending on the cause of break up. When it is your first love, it would take 2-3 months of denial and grief. Other people might find another partner just to relieve the pain. The first month of break up is the hardest. This is the period in which some people would do everything to save their relationship. Obsession and other forms of bad behavior will be used by the person to force their lover to come back even hurting themselves to death just to show the other person how hard their life would be without their partner. This is dangerous because some people have suicidal tendencies. There are many accounts on this. Love is truly a beautiful thing but pain and sacrifice always come with it. To love and to let go for me cannot be separated. If we learn to love, we must also learn how to let go of the past. We can do so many things to save the dying relationship but when it is the time, we should accept it. Ending a relationship doesn’t mean that it is the end of everything. It means that the relationship is not healthy anymore and we must grow to understand that not all things can be under our control. At first, it is going to be hard but as time passes by, we will come to realize so many things why such thing happens. We would know how to handle it next time we experience it. Ending is not really the end but a beginning of a more wonderful and positive things to come. Don’t be afraid to let go. It holds the secret of surrendering ourselves to Divinity and will open up more opportunities to meet someone who will truly love us. Love is a powerful thing and has its many blessings. One of it is about learning how to let go of the past. Moving on is part of being human but as we become mature, we will see life as a cycle and there will be a time we would meet someone who is really destined for us.
Whatever the reason is we must learn to accept it and move on. Moving on is not easy either. It takes time for our hearts to get healed and recover but for some, it is already part of their life and could easily move ahead. The reason for this is maybe they have some priority in their life that they need to focus on. Healing takes place normally depending on the cause of break up. When it is your first love, it would take 2-3 months of denial and grief. Other people might find another partner just to relieve the pain. The first month of break up is the hardest. This is the period in which some people would do everything to save their relationship. Obsession and other forms of bad behavior will be used by the person to force their lover to come back even hurting themselves to death just to show the other person how hard their life would be without their partner. This is dangerous because some people have suicidal tendencies. There are many accounts on this. Love is truly a beautiful thing but pain and sacrifice always come with it. To love and to let go for me cannot be separated. If we learn to love, we must also learn how to let go of the past. We can do so many things to save the dying relationship but when it is the time, we should accept it. Ending a relationship doesn’t mean that it is the end of everything. It means that the relationship is not healthy anymore and we must grow to understand that not all things can be under our control. At first, it is going to be hard but as time passes by, we will come to realize so many things why such thing happens. We would know how to handle it next time we experience it. Ending is not really the end but a beginning of a more wonderful and positive things to come. Don’t be afraid to let go. It holds the secret of surrendering ourselves to Divinity and will open up more opportunities to meet someone who will truly love us. Love is a powerful thing and has its many blessings. One of it is about learning how to let go of the past. Moving on is part of being human but as we become mature, we will see life as a cycle and there will be a time we would meet someone who is really destined for us.